Hi all~! Watching reality TV makes me reflect myself. Honestly, like ANTM show, some people want to change you to the person you don’t want, unless you’re comfortable with the change. Some people just totally don’t like who you are, and ignore you at any time. Some people just love you the way you are, no matter what you wear, or what is your personality. Worse, some people just want to maipulate you, so that they can step over you, in order to be higher. That’s real life people. Unluckily, in my culture, people speak with under’lying’ meaningSS and sometimes you don’t have a clue whether they are just being polite or cynnical. Honestly, I myself take whatever people say straight from the point and I don’t know how to decipher those underlying meanings beneath. Gosh. Actually I don’t have to figure it out innit? *sigh* time to pack!
I know what you mean. I wish everybody was straight forward but I guess it is against the Malaysian/ Asian culture.
I don’t know. I guess its just people. I used to let my feelings bottled up but in the end it burst out and make things worse.
Either you ignore or stand your ground. I believe in this;
Allah SWT akan mencukupkan pahala bagi orang yang sabar itu tanpa batas.
take care
Huu~ you are so right adam. Asians are like that.
Thanks k. khairyn, that is absolutely true. To him we pray.